February is a month full of messages about love and relationships. This may give you an excuse to have a special evening with your partner and reconfirm how you feel about each other. Or, you may hate the commerciality of Valentines Day and try to ignore it. In this month of love I’d like to turn the attention to the relationship with ourselves. Do you show yourself the same love that you show to those around you? I know that for some people the concept of loving yourself seems an impossible task. Over many years you have focused on […] Read more
The topic of fat-shaming is a difficult one. It is a topic that I have a lot of experience of and, sadly, it is still very common. This isn’t about people who shout out nasty insults in the street. Or those who write abusive comments hiding behind their keyboard online. Those people don’t deserve any of your, or my, time and the only answer to them is to ignore them. We can’t change the people who behave like this but we can change how we choose to react to them. This article is in response to the question I get […] Read more
One of the most common goals I work on with clients is how to improve their self-confidence and self-esteem. I start by asking them what it would feel like if they did have great self-confidence. This question can often be a difficult one to answer.